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Stop Thinking About Approaching. Start Actually Approaching.

If you've spent months or years wanting to approach women but keep finding yourself freezing, overthinking, or walking away, this is what I help with.

I've been there.

I spent years knowing exactly what I wanted to do and still being unable to make myself do it.

I knew I wanted to approach women. I knew I was capable of doing it. And yet when the moment came, my brain would say go while my body would say hell no.

Eventually, I stopped trying to think my way out of it and started doing the thing I was afraid of.

Now I help other men work through the same problem.

Phil

What I Help With

You wouldn't expect to feel confident playing basketball if you'd never stepped on a court.

Approaching works the same way.

Confidence comes from accumulating evidence that you can actually do the thing.

Is This Actually For You?

Coaching isn't for everyone. Here's who I think this makes sense for, and who it probably doesn't.

This Makes Sense If...

  • Your career and finances are in a reasonable place, but your dating life is way behind where you want it to be.
  • You're an action taker and are willing to implement rather than collect more advice.
  • A $1,500 investment is realistic for you.
  • You're willing to practice in the real world with someone in your corner who won't judge you.
  • You're open to daytime practice rather than only nightlife.

Probably Not A Fit If...

  • You want pre-recorded "pickup" content to binge without ever applying it. This isn't a course. It's built around you.
  • You're too busy to invest the time and get out a few hours a week.
  • You're financially struggling and $1,500 would create financial pressure. Coaching probably isn't the priority right now.
  • You're completely unwilling to practice outside nightlife. I'm not interested in bars, clubs, alcohol, and night-only settings.
  • You want manipulation, tricks, or a guarantee that women will say yes.

How We Can Work Together

There are a few different ways we can work together depending on how much support and real-world practice you're looking for.

1-on-1 6 Week Transformation

Twelve calls focused on your specific situation and personality. We'll work out what's keeping you stuck, then adjust based on what happens when you go out and approach. Plan on about 60 minutes for each call. If you want to keep talking, we can continue to around 90 minutes; once in a while, a call may run to 120 minutes. The $1,500 includes all 12 calls. There's no extra charge when a call runs longer.

12 calls · 60-minute goal · sometimes longer
$1,500

1-Day Wall Smasher

A full day of working together in person. We'll get you out into the real world and actually approach. The goal isn't to spend another day talking about approaching. It's to break through the wall. We start at around 1 p.m. Plan for at least four hours; a day will usually run closer to six. If you have the energy and want to continue, we can work for up to eight hours.

In-person coaching generally takes place in or near the city where I'm based. I'm currently in Texas and my location can change. We'll confirm the city and dates before scheduling. Flying to another city to help a client is negotiable.

At least 4 hours · usually around 6 · up to 8
$1,500

3-Day Wall Smasher

Three days of concentrated coaching and real-world practice. We'll have enough time to work through hesitation, deal with setbacks as they happen, and give you repeated opportunities to prove to yourself that you can actually do this. Plan for at least four hours per day; we'll usually work around six. If you have the energy and want to continue, we can work for up to eight hours per day.

In-person coaching takes place in the city where I'm based. I'm currently in Medellín, Colombia, and my location can change. We'll confirm the city and dates before scheduling.

3 days · at least 4 hours per day · usually around 6
$3,500

Custom Wall Smasher

Want to work with me in person for longer than the options above? We can put something together around your situation. The duration and price can be discussed privately. Longer commitments will come with a lower effective rate than the shorter options above.

Custom duration · Custom pricing
Let's Discuss

Think one of these options might be right for you? Tell me a little about your situation and what you're looking to change.

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Think We Might Be A Good Fit?

If you've read my story or some of my articles and think I might be able to help, send me a message.

Tell me a little about where you're stuck, what you've tried, and what you're hoping to change.

Or DM me on Instagram: @smashyourwall